Saturday, September 24, 2016

Why Snowden Creates His Own Monsters

Last week a friend of mine called me to tell me that I needed to see the movie Snowden because it was so outrageously funny.  I had been in Australia when the entire thing happened and for lack of a better word missed most of the public American reaction and witnessed instead the Australian response more prominently.

 As I recently told an ex-coworker of mine who was trying to discretely and awkwardly explain that her boyfriend worked for "the state department", I live in DC and it is weirder if you don't know anyone who works for the government.  Personally, I grew up as a child of this region.  My distant memories are speckled with the interiors of the on base day care of Fort Meade and even getting to see daddy's desk and solve algebraic word problems like daddy does at work all day at a Family day.

Therefore, I could easily spend the entirety of this post stating the obvious Hollywood imagination such as the fact that if the security when entering a government office actually showed all the details of the body such as it did in the movie, my father would not have died from kidney cancer because it would have been caught on his daily check in, the cubicles are not that pretty, nor is the board room in which Snowden skyped with his spirit guide (if you saw this movie you probably thinking, spirit guide... what spirit guide? Don't you mean the director of the CIA? Well, yes that is what he is referred to.  However, the director of the CIA has somewhere in the ballpark of tens of thousands of people working under him, does not conduct interviews for entry level positions, does not teach computer hacking 101 to new recruits, would be very unlikely to develop a personal relationship with a new recruit, and certainly would not being spying on the girl friend of an analyst level employee or contractor. This man is merely the figment of either Snowden or Oliver Stone's imagination and is really used as a spirit guide throughout the film.).

I could also probably dive into the questions of what he actually pulled out which actually, from what I can find, nothing more than what I consider intuitive if you actually think about it a little bit and how if random hackers have the capabilities to trace everything you do, shouldn't your government also have the capabilities as well?  Are there possibly shady people working in the government who use this information beyond what they should? Sure there are people doing things they shouldn't do everywhere, but they are also fired if caught using there tools the way the NSA agent showed Snowden while he was working at the CIA.  For anyone who thinks that there is "no oversight" on NSA, I urge you to visit the website of the Government Accountability Office (the GAO).  Historically, the NSA and the GAO aren't exactly friends, because as people who work for the GAO say "They (We) will not be corrupted." The GAO has the security and the authority to look into anything that NSA is doing and make sure they are adhering to their own standards.  Most people don't bother to read these GAO reports for one simple reason.  They are really freaking boring with lots of annotations and cited sources.  However, they are highly accurate and one of the absolute best sources of information you can find.  If something bad is going on in NSA without the public's knowledge, the GAO will find it and they will hold the NSA responsible.

However, what I would prefer to actually turn your attention to is actually beyond all the mess of what one without a security clearance could possibly fully dive into (and even with a security clearance, everyone is on a need to know basis the way that Snowden got so much was by creating a web crawler virus which did steal the information, so how much could we know).  I want to look at specifically how Snowden is his own greatest fear.  What Snowden wants is privacy in his own world.  However, by doing what he did in the way he did, he essentially set off a bomb in a mall in the name of ending violence.  He pulled out the privacy of the government and with it potentially the privacy of those working for the government, those privacy of those being watched by the government, and everyone who was picked up as part of information collection. Snowden has essentially lost all privacy personally as he is now on a government watch list and he continuously has cameras pointed at him in order to try to prove to us that we should be worried about the government's ability to watch us.

Snowden is afraid of the fact that we are being watched in the same sense that someone should be afraid of being watched while grocery shopping.  If you go to the grocery store, you will notice there are cameras staring at you with their beady little black eyes.  You probably really don't care that they are there, unless you are going to steal something.  However, whether you have stolen something or not, they are watching and recording so someone can go back and pull the footage in case you do.  In the same way, the government is continuously recording information.  It would take more people than exist in the United States to watch the population of the United States all the times.  They are merely storing the information for when they do need it.

So what is motivating the government to pull this information and watch you? Because they can and they want to feel more powerful than you? Not really, that probably aligns more closely with Snowden's motives than the governments.  The reason they pull and watch this information is in order to prevent actual bombs from going off.  It would be brilliant to live in a world were we had no fear of a plane crashing purposefully into  building, a gun being pulled on us in the street, or even identity theft.  Unfortunately, we do not live in a Utopian fairy tale, we live in this reality.  In this reality we need people to help watch our back for us, and we call that our government. NSA is absolutely brilliant when it comes to the defense side of the governmental game, but what about the offensive side?

It is often said that the best defense is a great offense.  So, what offensive game could the government play to lower the need for groups such as the NSA.  The true first step to lowering the rate at which someone has their eye on you, is to actually lower the risk of the world.  People don't blow themselves up in the name of god because they have a pretty good life with food in their bellies and warm clothes on their back.  In fact, the ancient Romans used to say "an uprising is only three missed meals away." In order to lower the risk of someone attacking, you need to take care of them.  We need to look less into pouring money into our defense and look at pouring it into the offensive tactics of our social programs.  A second look at that lovely GAO website shows that we actually do have many social programs to help our people, the people of developing nations, and even developing nations themselves.  However, a lot of these programs have a lot of trouble getting the funding they need, because we too often are too busy playing defense instead of offense.

Therefore, we as a nation need to come together to make sure the people who represent us in congress know that we want these programs to be a priority.  That we want GAO to go in and do reports on whatever might be keeping you up at night at the NSA or any other program you might be nervous about.  We need to recognize that we do not live in communist China.  After all, we know the terrible things that make up our own history.  In China, no one knows what happened in Tiananman Square, because the people who saw it disappeared and everyone is prevented from researching it.  If Snowden should be afraid of his government as much as he is, you would not know his name.  He would have simply disappeared along with all those working with him.  The government is nothing more than a collection of people and in this country we decide who they are.  We may have some poor options at times, but at the end of the day, they go into those roles for us and we are the ones who allow them to stay there.  If you have a problem with the world, just don't cry about it as Snowden has, instead, come up with a solution, volunteer to develop it, pitch it to your government, and make a real difference for the positive.

Saturday, September 17, 2016

A Little Post College Advice From Reality

I suppose you all are wondering where I have been and why I just didn't keep up with this blog.  To be honest, I regret not keeping up with it.  I had a ton of fun while creating this blog and loved most of the feedback I received in return.  However, once I graduated, I ran head long into the world.

I left my job as a Wedding Coordinator (no you didn't miss a step, I was a Wedding Coordinator while making my way through school and writing this blog), and went backpacking across Europe and Australia for a year.  While I was away, I worked as a night cleaner cleaning hostels in London in exchange for free board, a Wedding Coordinator down in Australia, and a waitress in Australia.  When I got home I took the first job I could find which obviously was not the job I wanted, then got a sales job, then a marketing events coordinator job, and then finally a full blown marketing job. Yay world I have finally made it to the end goal!  I now know exactly what they mean when they say "Everyone hates you when you are 22."

So here is my advice to anyone who is getting ready to graduate college:

1) If all else fails, save all the pennies you can and go backpacking.  The people you meet are amazing, the food is incredible, and when everyone is waiting tables to make ends meet, you are at least waiting tables in another country.

While you are there contact temp agencies who hire in the field that you want to get into and/or have experience in.  I did not actually do this myself, but one of my best friends did right before I left and it worked out brilliantly for her.  She had fewer professional gaps in her resume, earned a higher paycheck than your typical backpacker, and still was gaining all the benefits of travel.  Keep a folder on you at all times with a copy of your resume (I also advise keeping this on a google doc so you can alter it and print it at any time), a couple official copies of your transcripts, and two signed letters of recommendations from previous employers or professors (don't give them away make a copy of them).  Keep the folder in a waterproof (i.e. ziploc) bag at the bottom of your backpack/suitcase.  Trust me looking like the ever ready bunny never hurts when it comes to finding a job.

Many cities offer free walking tours that I highly suggest you go on once you land.  It will help you find your barrings and find out what you actually want to do once you get to a city. AKA there is a lot more the Amsterdam than pot and a lot more to London than the Buckingham Palace.

Read the newspaper to find out when economies are going through hard times.  When they do buy your plane ticket in the failing countries currency and exchange some cash.  Br-exit isn't going to negatively affect your travels, but it will cheapen your airfare.  Just be sure that there isn't something actually wrong with the safety of the city.  A journalist being beheaded in Syria may drive down the plane ticket price, but you don't want it to end up costing you more than you bargained for later down the line.

Don't listen to people who tell you that you shouldn't travel.  Trust me there are plenty of people who told me about how I was about to become the new reality star of Hostel 4, but I to this day, do not personally know of anyone who was brutally murdered while staying in a Hostel.  I do know of two boys who drowned in a lake (which I do reflect on pretty regularly) and I do know of one boy who was rufied in a bar and woke up in a hospital, but both of those things actually happened at home for them.

2) If you get a job straight out of school negotiate as much time to travel before you start as you possibly can.  Whether it is a week or a month or even three months, it is well worth it!

3) When you first start applying for jobs, apply to as many as you can!  Alternatively, if you had an internship which is offering you a full time position use this as a starting point.  Once you have one job, then apply only to jobs that interest you and use the salary from the one you have to negotiate a higher salary somewhere else.

4) Don't expect to jump out of college and have your life all put together for you.  A lot more people end up living with their parents at some point although the tend to not want to admit to it.  Get the cheapest apartment you can find and find free furniture when ever you can.  I am currently repainting a once white bookshelf into a very nice black with grey trim.  What probably should have cost me $500 in solid bookshelf that goes with my decor is actually only costing me about $50 in paint and brushes ($30 if I had saved my last set of paint brushes).

5) Never stop learning.  Go to conferences in your field and get book recommendations from speakers.  Actually read the books.  This will expand your horizons, keep you fresh, and give you something to talk about at interviews/awkward dinner parties.  Also go to lectures in your are that interest you and read books on topics you like.

6) If you find you are dating someone and you do not feel like you are a better person with them (which generally goes hand in hand with if you are generally happy with them) leave.  I have far to many friends in unhappy relationships to even site examples on this one.  However, you aren't doing anyone any favors by staying in what can be sometimes be described as miserable relationship.  It doesn't matter if you have been with them for years, that may just mean that you have been with them one year too long.  People grow and change, break ups aren't bad they are a part of life.  There are plenty of people out there and one day you too will stumble across someone who makes you happy to wake up in the morning and be alive with them.

7) Reconnect every once in a while with old friends, old coworkers, and old boyfriends.  Sure things may not have worked out as you had once hoped, but these people have grown just as you have and the connection you had with them will never fully go away.  Especially during the hard times, we tend to avoid people.  However, going to one of my best friend from school's art opening right after I had lost my job was better than any therapy I could have asked for.

8) Be honest about your past with yourself and other people in your life.  Everyone has parts of their past they aren't proud of, but a lot of people have trouble opening up about it.  When you learn from your less than proud moments, you grow.  Sharing your growth from a bad time in your life allows people to see your growth beyond it, connect more deeply with people who are trying to grow from their past, and allows them to grow from your experiences. That being said, you must actually grow first and the only way to do that is to be honest with yourself.

9)  Know what job you want to have two jobs away from where you currently are.  A lot of people get complacent in their current job because they don't know what they want to do moving forward and they don't know how to get there.  If you know where you want to go next and where you want to go after that, you will have random evenings of inspiration where you will talk to a colleague, pick up a book, or search through the google machine to figure out how to get where you want to go.

10) There is always hope around the corner. If you aren't dead, there is still life yet.  Keep going after what you want even if life knocks you down a bit!  There is nothing that you can't do.

Have a beautiful life!
-Reality


Wednesday, September 14, 2016

This One Time, I Had a Blog...

A little over four years ago, I had a brilliant idea, as many people do, to start a blog.  I really enjoyed posting twice a week for about two months and then I graduated college.  Suddenly, I was in the big bad world and didn't have time for a blog.

However, years later, I have re-opened my blog to discover that those two months worth of content still gain more attraction four years later than some pieces done in my actual profession for actual companies that I actually worked for.  So, now do I restart this blog?  I have a little bit more free time on my hands now that I am actually "established" and this whole Hillary vs. Trump thing has gotten quite interesting...

Yes, I am going to come on back to you! Girl World Vs. Reality is returning for a little more feminist fun!

I am going to come back every Wednesday and Saturday mornings just like the good old days.  Maybe we might just branch off a bit.  Let me know what you think!

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

OMG! I Met a Cute Guy, Let's Check My Horoscope!


                “Oh my god look at my horoscope!  It’s so right today!”  I giggled as my friend passed me the paper reveal the secrets of the universe to us all.  “You know I never want to believe these are real, but they are so dead on right all the time!”  I giggled reading the paper myself.  They did seem accurate, but wait, I wasn’t reading my own horoscope I was reading hers.  Maybe we are connected by the stars?  I had to go home and look it up!
http://my.horoscope.com/astrology/horoscope-sign-profile-cancer.html
                I looked through pages of how fortune predictions worked.  Throwing out tiny pieces of meaningless information to see how you react to it and then building from it.  Like in the Wizard of Oz when the fortuneteller looked at the picture in Dorothy’s basket, real fortunetellers also use the context clues we bring in with us to start to develop a story of our “fortune” for us.  To me, that is almost just as worthy as a real fortune, a person letting you know exactly the kinds of signals you send out to the world is extremely useful.  However, where does a newspaper get its clues about my own personal life.
                The fact is, horoscope predictions are actually written in such a way that most people will see them as applying to their life most of the time.  An excellent experiment performed by the professor Richard Dawkins gave out just one of the daily horoscopes telling everyone it was the prediction for their sign.  A majority of the people agreed that the fortune was accurate, except, ironically enough, a woman who happened to actually have the sign used as her actual sign. 
At any given point in our lives, we are nervous about expectations and changes in our lives, we are hoping to find love and happiness, and we are preparing for great adventures in our own minds.   As humans we are naturally prone to facing stresses at work or school, we change friends, meet new people, and help old friends through difficult times, and we look forward to new things on the horizon for ourselves and hope for success and even see it amongst failure.  Horoscopes take these aspects of our lives and give us general overriding advice on them.  The advice can apply to such a vast majority, the odds of it applying to you are strong.
But what about my personal solidified description that describes me wonderfully and that doesn’t change… Well, the thing about those are that they often include very positive wording which people tend to want to agree with in the first place.  I may not actually be the deepest thinker, but if a horoscope tells me I am, I’m not going to disagree with it.  If you read through all the horoscope descriptions, you would find in general most of them feel as though they apply to you as well!

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Organics, Mathematics, and Other Problems We are Loosing the Ability to Solve



“And then there are some things, that you are just wasting your money on, like organics!  People have lived for thousands of years without organics, and now this whole organics craze has got me paying double when my wife goes to the grocery store.”  My mouth hung open, I couldn’t believe that my well-educated college professor was saying this.  Living without organics for thousands of years? No actually its only very recently you could get things non-organic.  Its only in the past 50 years that un-natural chemicals have been used in the production of our foods.  Since then, we (Americans) have found ourselves becoming increasingly unhealthy.  That professor is not alone in his thinking, so many of my friends agree whenever we talk on the issue of health “Its just soooo expensive, I want to do it, but I just can’t afford it!”  “Going to a drive through is just so much cheaper and easier.”  It doesn’t stop with organic foods either.  Constantly we hear parents complain about how much effort it takes to organize children into doing physical activity and it is “just easier to put them in front of the TV’
We constantly say that we don’t have the time or money to eat the way we should, but is that really it? Or is it simply the big companies who gave us drive through lanes, video games, and cable TV want us to believe that buying into their unhealthy products makes life easier and cheaper.  When you buy organically yes you’re paying more, on average it is about a 20%-40% markup, however, when you go through that easy drive through you are paying 3X as much for the low quality food that you are getting.  Not to mention the cost of the gas to drive to the drive through for every meal as opposed to the one trip to the grocery store a week.
If you order off the breakfast dollar menu, you will probably spend about $3 per person.  Seems cheap enough, until you consider the actual math of the situation;  at home my organic eggs cost $2.50 per dozen, that is about 20 cents per egg, I eat my eggs with toast which is the most expensive bread you can buy (100% Whole grain, Whole wheat) at $7 for 16 slices, that’s 44 cents per slice.  So, if I ate two slices of bread and two eggs, which is much more food than the dollar menu meal provided I will spend $1.28, less than half what I spent on breakfast for far more.  The time you spend making an egg into whatever way you want (except for hard boil but you can make those in advanced while doing other things) is about the same if not less time than you will spend in the drive through on their quickest days.  The same formulas can be used for any meal and for all of them you can come up with simple, more filling, cheaper, quicker, and healthier meals every single time.
Eating Healthy foods is only half the equation, exercise is also part of it.  We always hear parents complaining that it is easier to put their child in front of the television than to have to go through the time and money it takes to organize them into sports.  However, they are forgetting that, it cost quite a bit of money for all the electronic equipment, the monthly cable fee, and that lovely air conditioning you have blowing through your child’s climate controlled environment.  To send them outside to play, is well, free!  Yep, that’s right the most you as a parent have to do is stick your child on the front porch and lock the door, and guess what within 5 minutes, they have come up with their own game to entertain themselves with for free!  I’m not saying don’t keep an eye on them, but children can actually manage themselves when left to their own devices, and first and foremost, they will find a way to entertain themselves.  Often they find entertainment, not by sitting down and lethargically staring at rocks, but by running around, playing tag, chasing birds, and getting physical activity.
The same goes for us as well, we say we don’t have the time to exercise, and then take every available moment to sit down, after spending full days sitting.  The key to our problem is that we have taken unhealthy treats such as fast food, cable, and video games, and tried to turn them into our lifestyles.  As a result, we have seen extraordinary obesity and diabetes in our world.  Our bodies are revolting against our own treats and failed attempts to spoil it!   Our bodies need healthy foods and they crave exercise.  So why not be lazy, and give in to the healthy lifestyle, because at the end of the day it’s actually easier!

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Wednesday, April 11, 2012

It was Love at First...?


            “Do you believe in love at first sight?”  It seems such a simple question on first sight, but as soon as my friend posted it, she saw a flood of emotional responses fighting for possibilities and defending the honor of loves past and current.  However, as we all debated we realized one profound truth that we all forgotten in the simple question.  That love, itself, is not simple, love is complex.  Love is not a black or white fact, but a flexible emotion that we feel.  We cannot know if someone loves the way we can see if someone blinks, instead we must sense it the way we sense if someone breaths, we must assume by the warmth in the air and the signs of their motions to know if someone is breathing.  There are also different types of love we can feel and different levels and stages of love with in those types.
            Before I begin, I must pause to note that I am not talking about lust.  Although lust and love are similar and can be often confused, as they both are based in a combination of passion and desire, lust is a completely different emotion based upon innate animal instincts with the intention of continuously populating the earth.  We also must recognize that love is not something we can judge about other people.  We do not know how someone else feels love, and it is not possible for us to truly know.  All we know is what we feel ourselves.
            Love is an emotion based upon caring about someone or something else.  Therefore, like any other emotion, it can felt in a second.  Like anger, joy, and sadness, your emotion can change in a moment.  Of course, like all emotions, the more bases and more time put into developing that emotion, the longer it is felt.  You may feel love for something in a moment and immediately stop moments later because you don’t put the time into developing that emotion, or you realize that your original emotion was unfound.  It happens all the time with the emotion of fear, one moment we are shocked into fear, only to realize moments later that we had nothing to be afraid of.  We react to love in just the same way.
            Obviously, there are certain types of love that cannot be gained in an instant.  Although all types of love can come over time, storge love is they type of love that comes from slowly develops from friendship.  By the very definition, storge cannot be found in an instant.  Euros, on the other hand, are based upon aesthetic enjoyment and can easily be felt the moment you notice something.  Ludus, which is love played like a game of chess, is entered into the moment the players start to play the game.
            The key to love as most wish to experience it is in the recognition that love is an emotion that must be nurtured.  You may have had that initial feeling of care towards that other person, but you must develop it more in order to make it last over the years in the form of friendship, romantic relationship, or any other form.

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Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Diet or Just Plain Die...

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            I was trying to be healthy, but at times life amongst the brightly colored boxes of a grocery store can be a rough road.  “Stick to the outside. Stick to the outside. Stick to the outside, but wait I need juice, V8 V-Fusion juice is good for you.  Ok, really quick in and out.”  I dodged into the juice aisle and grabbed my healthy beverage, and managed my way out of the grocery store without falling to my own temptations.   I was already unpacking my grocery bag before I realized I had failed.  By accident, I had grabbed the wrong bottle of juice.  I had grabbed the Light V8.
            I know what you are thinking, this is better for you right?  Light is better for a healthy life.  At least that’s what we are raised to believe, but throw that out now, because it is probably those light foods that are keeping you off the road to healthy living. For years, food companies have used these “Diet”, “Light”, and “Fat Free” labels to get us to buy things that should never enter our body in the first place.  At first glance, the “Light” label on my V8 juice seems accurate, after all it contains only 50 calories as opposed to the 170 of the regular V8.  However,  if you continue to read down, you will see that you are giving up all of the protein in V8 when you drink the light version.  That little cheat chart of nutrition facts is only the tip of the ice-burg.   Located not too far, hiding in plain view on the ingredients list is the true perpetrator.
            Sucralose, more commonly known as splenda, is written on the list of ingredients.  We also think of splenda as a health food, because it replaces sugar.  However, the truth is that eliminating sugar won’t help you lose weight.  In fact sucralose has been shown in studies to not only make you gain weight, but also negatively affect your body’s ability to utilize those few nutrients V8 light didn’t eliminate.
            It doesn’t end with just V8, almost all light and diet labeled foods have something in them to make them worse than if you ate the actual product.  The conception of aspartame, used in Diet Coke, can lead to not only to seizures, but also death.  Saccharin, sweet’n lo, greatly raises the risk of some forms of cancers and tumors.  Besides these health risks, these replacement chemicals are highly addictive making you want to eat more of them and, in the end           
            So what can you do to eat healthier now that “diet” foods are off the table.  Stick to the natural.  If you buy it the way you can find it in the wild than it is generally good to eat.  Of course, a variety is best.  Your body needs protein and iron in meets, the nutrients in fruits and vegetables, and yes even the fat found in milk and other dairy products.  The goal, is to aim for as little processing as possible.  The amount of sugar found in one processed item is often more than what is enough fruit for you to care to eat.
            Keep healthy, keep it natural, and do your research.
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